My boyfriend of 7 months didnt call me on my birthday, potenial breakup song much? NEED HELP!?

mkkays so yeasturday was my 14th birthday and on the 13th my boyfriends of about 7 months hung out %26amp; he was amazing %26amp; he gave me a beautiful necklace he got in italy for me. Well on the 13th i asked him to call me the next day to wish me happy birthday, %26amp; he promised because him calling was going to make up for something he screwed up about before, hmm the 14th came around %26amp; i got about 20 calls from other friends, but nothing from him! today (the 15th) i get a text from him saying he was sorry he didnt call. Wanna know why? becuase he had a friend over %26amp; apprently he couldnt take three minutes to call or text happy birthday. Now im at home listening to the potential break up song by aly%26amp;aj. ( if you havent heard it I recommend it!) What should i do. (no answers saying ask your mom, bc y parents are divorced %26amp; im at my dads %26amp; hes at work)

My boyfriend of 7 months didnt call me on my birthday, potenial breakup song much? NEED HELP!?
He's a guy and you're young. That is how guys are. Some guys are like that and have the potential to grow out of it into great caring gentleman and some will always be rude little jerks, but you'll never know that unless you're with him till the end. So, you just have to know what you want. If you can get past it, and you want him bad enough, stay with him. If it hurts too much, MOVE ON. There are too many guys out there. Most likely you won't be with this guy forever anyway, so do what you feel is right.


So.....On one hand.......He's a dude. I'm sure he didn't do it to hurt you. Guys are just not as thoughtful as girls are (well not all guys anyway).


On the other hand....if it were me......Birthdays are a big deal for me. I would move on. You don't need that.


Happy birthday from me!!!!
Reply:Lose him. Period.
Reply:without question that is a big screw up, but i dont think it warrants ending the relationship, if you want it to be long term you are both going to screw up plenty of times....so you need to accept it...be mad cause he deserves that, but i wouldnt end it ( he got you the necklace)
Reply:O MY GOSH! dump that jerk! thats just rude!





p.s.


I LOVE THAT SONG!!!!
Reply:You should talk to your boyfriend. Maybe it really just slipped his mind. And you should think of some way for him to make it up to you... But dont think that he is going to break up with you because then you will start getting all worked up about it. Your lucky tho because on my 13th birthday my boyfriend of a year didnt even hang out with me. He was with his friend the whole time and i guess i was not important enough. If you need any other help e-mail me





good luck
Reply:Its wrong of him but,





Come on, its not like he forgot completely. Hes only 14 and he got you a beautiful necklace. He wasn't right to not call, but you sound like you totally forgot about his gift and him spending time with you; so think about it, is the problem about him not appreciating you or YOU NOT appreciating him?





Don't get worked up over stupid little things. You are only sabatoging your relationship.
Reply:well, happy belated birthday! I think he may have intentionally hurt you, which is wrong. You have two choices, you can forgive him and move on and never bring it up again, then if something similar happens again, you know it's a pattern and to move on. Or, you can move on to someone who shows you they care, by doing things that make you feel happy. Men suck sometimes, and being so young, it will happen again, unfortunately. But hang in there and keep hope alive. there is someone on earth who was meant for you, and that's a promise from a higher authority than me. Best wishes!
Reply:Stop being so overdramatic; else they'll be need for that potential breakup song.


When he dumps you.